How To Make Him Chase You

DATING EXPERT: Wenzdai Tosca

The art of seduction goes a long way when you’re looking to entice someone, especially men. You’ve got your intentions set on getting this guy and you’re not taking no for an answer. With competition in dating at an all time high, you want to be able to separate yourself from the rest of the world. If you want to get his attention, here are five tips to get him out of your head and get into his heart.

Dress to Impress

Men are visual creatures. Your style, beauty and overall presence all share a level of importance in sparking his attraction and capturing his attention. A man seeing a woman he desires biologically sends him into a hormonal frenzy. He will find you irresistible. Also, when you throw on your little black dress or those heels that make you feel ultra confident, the energy you exude sends the message to men you are someone worth being interested in.

Confidence is Key

A confident woman commands attention; not because she requests it, but she demands it. Confidence is accepting who you are and being comfortable with the way you exist in the world. So don’t shy away from anything that is uniquely and authentically you. If you love yourself, how could he not?

Play Hard To Get

Men love the chase. They’re wired to work for the things they value and find important. So don’t be too available. Find the balance between “I have a life, sorry maybe next time!” and “I can be available, what’s the date and time?” A woman who has her own thing going on values her time, all while reminding him she has priorities too. If he’s really interested, he’ll offer another opportunity to try to see you.

Be Enjoyable

Good energy and great conversation go a long way. No one, including yourself, wants to spend their free time around someone who is miserable to be around. This doesn’t require you to have a “fake positive” attitude during your dates, but being charismatic, appreciative, and open to having a good time will make him associate your interaction as a positive experience, a vibe he will crave to be around.

Get Your Flirt On

Flirting looks and feels different with everyone. It’s an opportunity where your wit and affectionate sides meet to lure him in. Playful flirting includes laughing, gentle nudges, smiling, and batting your eyelashes. Intellectual flirting may come in the form of satire or witty banter. No matter what style of flirt you decide, your main goal is to reassure him of your interest. When men are certain you like them, it boosts their confidence to pursue you.

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